Benjamin Zulu advices couples that marriage is not for the weak. You need to develop the ability to rest. And have peace to focus on other things. Even without having to scrutinize everything. The strong know they must believe in their marriage in order to see it.
Lulu Hasan and Rashid Abdalla are news anchors at Citizen TV and they are famous for the weekend Swahili news. On Saturday and Sunday, they do act as co anchors and their combination is quite admirable, making it addictive to watch as they read news together. On Saturday, they do host marriage counselors led by Bi Msafwari and Kenyans benefit quite alot from the wise words.
Benjamin Zulu advices men that you can find a very calm down to earth lady. Not looking at the guy whether a servant or not yet driven ambitious.The lady was down to earth easy conversational driving big cars but very humble. Humble woman who had money tell our girls.
Benjamin Zulu advices public that when dating and waiting do not commit intimacy. It is the season when you are learning your personality before you marry anyone. And know best strength and most risky weakness. Your weakness come out of your strength. Most of the people are dancing themselves lame before their actual time.
Benjamin Zulu advices single ladies that as a single lady you need to understand that. As you are treating dating as a market. You go out there with your open mind. You are bound to meet everyone there both married and single men. Now you need to have wisdom to know some of the tricks.
Acclaimed counselling psychologist cum relationships expert Benjamin Zulu has today exhibited his determination to streamline the dating scene by weeding out wicked and unscrupulous men who have for a long time manipulated women for their own personal gains. According to Zulu, so many flippant young men have infiltrated the dating arena where they have been receiving all benefits entitled to a married couple only for them to vanish after a few months, and hop to the next victim as the cycle continues often leaving the innocent females feeling wasted, used and devastated.
Benjamin Zulu advices public that marriage is not mandatory. In relationship in searching love you find you are loneliness. Get the person who has the capacity the potential to move with you. And then grow with them. Love is a combination of learning and find somebody you are basically happy.
Marriage counselor Benjamin Zulu warned people of the dire consequences of being driven by emotions rather than thinking in relationships. Many people are so much overwhelmed by the idea of having found their match and in the process forget their basic set standards. He argues that before beginning to search for your soulmate, you should have laid down non negotiable characteristic from the partner you wish to marry.
Benjamin Zulu advices public that when you experience love for the first time. And you want to hold to it for good. That is temporary insanity you lose your senses. The first place of insanity is those pre 25 who are too young. It is a wrong time you have not yet matured mentally.
Benjamin Zulu advices single mothers on how to raise their sons. Most of them are grappling with fear. They worry about how the boys will end up being men in the society which depends on them. They wonder if they can properly mold them. This parenting fear places them on the edge.
Benjamin Zulu advices public that in dating process you loved the person. To the extent that you gave out a gift for that matter. But in the process you never got along. Affer parting ways you went for the very gift you gave out. Avoid it is always wrong for long-term relationships.
Benjamin Zulu advices that how honest and mature couples behave around their phones. Couples have been grappling with matters to insecurities in their relationships. Your partner might be insecure in your relationships becouse they don't trust you. One obvious reason men ignore intimacy with a woman before marrying her.
Benjamin Zulu advices public that avoid lovers who have high tempers in searching. There is no way you can manage marriage without skills. During dating there are segments that you ignore the temperament of individuals. The temperamental they are easily agitated the best way to help them.
Benjamin Zulu advices couples that they should avoid forcing marriages to work. This is because the love is insincere. Love is not enough you need a person who can trust you. Avoid underestimating a partner you don't trust. Some partners are impossible to stay with in marriage.
Benjamin Zulu advices public that how to know if you are dating an introvert or insincere person. Most people are finding it difficult to to stay in marriage. Or to deal with whoever they are dating because of differences in personalities. Many are confused on where is the boundary line.
Benjamin Zulu advices public that if your special friend begin to suggest that you become romantic. Don't accept because you are afraid of disappointing them when it comes to love affairs. It is one of the most embarrassing situation you have to deal with it. You feel that is a very risk thing to that relationship.
Benjamin Zulu advices public that wherever you are work hard. Develop skills and be competent are very important in your life . Becouse when companies offer you a job you know which dynamic to come to deliver. Many people have skills but still unemployed becouse are untrustworthy. Are lazy they struggle to wake up to go to work.
Benjamin Zulu advices public that most of you have enduered a lot of breakups in life. You are finding it difficult to actually pull yourself through that breakup that happened unexpectedly. Emotion pain can never be over-emphasized. You never saw it coming but it happened. Losing a loved one physically is painful.
Benjamin Zulu advices public that most of the people are dancing themselves lame. Before their actual time comes. When they engage in intimcy during dating and waiting. This is how you will protect yourself from the temptation of engaging in intimcy. There is a time and a season for every matter under the sun.
Benjamin Zulu advices public that it is tricky to say no to a special friend. You have been friends from high school all through to university. After school you accommodated the person. You have been encouraging each other. At your best and lowest moments as brothers and sisters.