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6 Traits Only Players Have

It can be hard to tell when someone is being genuine with you and when they're just playing games. Many people have been hurt by someone they thought was a great person, only to find out later that they were a player all along.

So, how can you tell if someone is a players. It's important to know what to look for. Players often display certain traits, and if you're able to spot them early on, you can save yourself a lot of heartache. Here are the top six traits that players have.

1. They are too smooth.

This is common with players. They are very smooth when it comes to talking to you, and they always seem to say them at just the right time.

This behavior can be flattering at first, but after a while you'll start to feel like you're being manipulated. If someone is constantly telling you what you want to hear, be cautious. They may just be trying to get something from you.

2. They look for pleasure, not genuine connection.

This is a tricky one, because obviously we all want to be with someone who makes us feel good. But some players take this to an extreme.

They are always looking for the next best thing, and they're not really interested in anything else.

If you find yourself being pursued by someone who seems more interested in your body than your mind, be careful. They may just be using you for pleasure.

3. Perfect acting, when they need something.

In a survey of 100 people, it was found that players are often very good actors. They can turn on the charm when they need something from you, but as soon as they get what they want, they go back to their true selves.

For example, a player may be extra sweet to you when they need money from you. But as soon as they have your money, they'll go back to their cold, distant self.

4. They make you feel like you are overreacting.

Players are experts at gas lighting. They will make you question your reality and make you feel like you are overreacting to their bad behavior.

For example, if you confront a player about the fact that they never seem to be around when you need them, they will likely tell you that you're being too needy. They will find a way to make you doubt yourself, instead of taking responsibility for their own actions.

5. They test your boundaries.

Players will often test your boundaries to see how much they can get away with. They may do things that they know you don't approve of, just to see how much control they have over you.

If they can make you tolerate their bad behavior, they feel like they have won. And this, of course, means that they can continue to do it.

6. They love the chase but get bored once you're caught.

The mentality of most players is that the chase is more fun than the catch. They love the thrill of pursuing someone, but once they actually catch you, they start to lose interest.

This is because players are often more interested in the idea of you than they are in actually being with you. They love the thrill of the chase, but once they have you, they start to get bored.

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