Do not settle for a relationship that won't let you be yourself. Don't make someone a priority in your life if you are an option to them because in the end, the person you are meant to be with does not need to be begged to stay. You deserve someone who is utterly obsessed with you. Relationships are worth fighting for, but you can't be the only one fighting.
Sometimes the changes we don't want are the changes we need in order to grow and become better people. Toxic and infections people play with your mind and you need to release them before they kill you gradually. If the relationship can't survive the long term, it is not worth your time and energy for the short term.
Don't lose yourself in the process of loving someone and don't set yourself on fire trying to keep others warm. We can deeply love our poison. A bad relationship is like standing on a broken glass, if you stay you will keep hurting. If you walk away, you will hurt but eventually, you will heal. At times it's better for someone to break your heart once by leaving you than break your heart continually by staying.
Some bridges must be burned for the devil not to follow you. You create more space in your life when you turn your excess baggage to garbage. There is a time for departure even when there's no certain place to go. It's better to be healthy alone than sick with someone else. Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.
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