There is nothing wrong with being rejected. It happens to all of us. The important thing is to learn something from this rejection. Why did she turn down your approach? what went wrong? How can you improve?
1.Your looks don't match her standards.
In other words, you're not in a league or a "type" of guy. The truth is physical appearance matters, especially when you first meet someone. You know you don't have to be Brad Pitt to blow away. But you do have to dress well, smell good and stand up straight. Want to improve on this I think the way to do so is pretty obvious. Make an effort to dress well look clean have a fresh haircut and smell good.
2.You have a bad reputation.
When a negative reputation foresee intentions it is hard to show them. This is one of the main reasons addict of all sorts find it hard to change their lives. The easy way out of this badly reputed zone is to change your social circle. Find new venues, dare to go out alone and try new approaches. It's difficult to truly make a change. Shock these people in a positive way you are not that flabby guy they thought you were. stay away from alcohol for a while if that's your thing and let them see you are strong. You can better yourself and you will.
3.You're pushing for a one-night stand.
Letting her know that you want is to get laid always equals rejection. Here some things to make approaching her easier: make her feel special by showing her you are interested in her, get her interested in you, use body language as much as you can, read between the lines to figure out if she's interested in one night stand and only point out your intentions directly after at least some kissing as happened.
4.You can't make her feel special.
If the woman is already talking to you but you see that with each passing moment she's losing interest. Learn that rejection is about to hit you. If this happens you need to think about things. Were you are total mean in your words or actions? Did you give her enough attention? Did you ask her questions about herself? Did you listen to her? Then you'll show interest. Believe me the success of you is vastly influenced by ability to make her feel special. She's not solely interested in learning about you it is human nature. If you make a person feel good he or she will let his guard down make her feel interesting and appealing and she will be interested and attracted to you.
5.Your approach caught her off-guard.
If she's not used to being approached by directly, then your move might have caught her off-guard. She might dismiss you immediately. You know this is happening if she looked confused or even throws you some fugitive glances after the rejection has occurred.
6.She is already committed.
Whether she has a boyfriend a crush or someone is stuck on her ex, she won't give you a second glance if she's emotionally committed to some other guy. In general the reason behind a Swift rejection is sentimental blockage. When a girl closes any communication path before even uttering two words it's pretty obvious she's hooked on with somebody else.
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