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Why Being Single May Be Better Than Being In Love

I am sure that one of the most important relationships you will ever have is with yourself, and sometimes loneliness is the best option.

It’s better to learn to be kind to yourself first

The truth is, if you don’t love yourself you can’t build a healthy relationship no matter how hard you try. And that's why scientists warn us that self-compassionate partners are more satisfied with their relationships. On the other hand, self-compassion means that you’re kind and caring toward yourself. On the contrary, people who are in conflict with themselves tend to be controlling, dominating, and judgmental.

We are often guilty of singlism

According to research, people evaluate single men and women more negatively. It is so common that there’s even a word for it known a singlism. Single people face different types of discrimination, and it’s considered legitimate and unproblematic. Therefore, the next time someone asks when you’ll find your partner, they are actually invading your privacy.

You can develop more as an individual

Can you try to think about all the time that single people have for themselves. They have a chance to try different hobbies, achieve their wildest dreams, or pursue their careers. While on the other hand, it’s evident that married men earn more than single men. Single women are 2 times more likely to own a home, than single men.

Single people actually have super strong relationships

There’s a belief that single people suffer from loneliness, but this has been proven wrong. The fact that you aren’t in a relationship with anyone means that you are more likely to have stronger bonds with your family and friends. It clear that single people are more likely to socialize, offer and also receive help from family and other people.

Chasing love can make your life miserable

This constant urge makes us begin to focus on a chase to find a significant other. Unfortunately, sometimes that means lowering expectations or giving up important qualities in a possible partner. Love can be addictive, and we may end up leaping from “heart to heart” in a desperate search for a soul mate.

Being single will make you healthier and fitter

There is actually an advantage for being solo and sassy, it is the fact that you are likely to be healthier. Take for example, single people are more likely to have a healthier BMI index, which leads to a lower risk of cardiovascular diseases and fewer chronic conditions.

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