Some Empowering Relationship Advice For Ladies
Relationships are different and every relationship has it's own set of challenges. Relationship is not difficult but rather it's the people involved that make them challenging. Relationships take effort, and they can be healthy and happy if you know what to do. Here is some relationship advice for women you can use every day to make a difference in your relationship.
Have your own life
Just because you are in a relationship does not mean that you should abandon you own life and live that of your partner. You should not leave your friends, hobbies or work for it. Have your own life, your friends and things that you can do at your time. Have some independence and an identity of your own. If you don’t, things will get boring and routine in the relationship
Don't be needy
Being needy and chasing can go hand in hand. If you want to see him 24/7, text him 24/7, and basically think the world resolves around him, well, you’re being needy. Many people think that this helps but rather it cause him to feel suffocated and pushes him away from you.
You can only attract the level of love that you feel for yourself. So, look at all your good qualities and decide to love yourself exactly the way you are right now.
Take care of yourself
If you love yourself you will take care yourself. You should take care of yourself outside your relationship. You need to feed your soul in other ways outside of your relationship or else you won’t have anything left to give.
Don't be a people pleaser
Many women mistakenly believe that if they please other people, then they will automatically love them. But this is not always the case since a lot of people will take advantage of you if you give too much of yourself. Instead, strive for a healthy balance of being selfless and selfish. Please your partner, but also make sure they please you too. Relationships are a two way street.
Don't avoid problems
Many people think that by avoiding problems that they will go away. But this is not always the case. This does not work. If you avoid problems for years upon years, well, they are going to pile up. And then one day you’ll wake up years later and never be able to sort through them all because they’ve been accumulating for too long.
You may be in a relationship but that does not mean that you are alike as that person. Accept the differences. Also note that if there are too many differences that you can’t tolerate, then maybe he’s not the person for you. Don’t forget, he should accept your differences too.
Always appreciate your partner. Cheer for them and respect them and demand to be respected. Don't be in a relationship where you are abused and not respected. Speak you mind and make sure you connect to your partner. Have a common thing that you two can do together to build your bond. Also be good listener. Don't always speak rather listen to him also.
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