Most guys find out that even when they're pretty good at talking to girls, getting girls to really like them, is another story.
Most of the time a major part of what's missing is a lack of a few key elements from your life.
A few missing ingredients that either leave a girl bored or uninterested.
1. Enjoy her unusual traits.
It's no secret. Girls love compliments. But you don't have to go over the top about it.
By constantly telling her how good she looks or how gorgeous her hair is your words actually lose value.
Think about it, in the marketplace of compliments. You want your compliment to hit her like a flirtation brick to the face and a compliments has a much stronger effect when it is sincere, and more importantly, unexpected.
2. Calm under fire.
Stress and irrational behavior are both enormous turn offs for girls.
But being a cool customer, calm and collected in the face of turmoil is the one of the easiest ways to make a girl go crazy for you.
3. Take notes.
So things she's told you in passing, like her favorite band, or how she loves capuchin monkeys, are the types of things you need to lock in your brain and never, ever forget.
Because you can surprise her later on down the line with a trip to the zoo or tickets to see her favorite band.
And the fact that you remembered what she told you will prove to her how thoughtful you are and how much you care about the things she says.
4. Be game tight.
But that doesn't mean you shouldn't dress to kill.
Girls don't expect a guy to be dressed to the mines everytime he leaves the house.
But interest is incremental. Meaning, it's most likely not going to be any one thing that really pushes the needle and gets a girl running after you.
So dressing in something a little nicer than a t - shirt and gym shoes, paying a little attention to your aesthetic, is a tried and true method of checking off the boxes in your favor and getting a girl to become slowly and hopelessly crazy for you.
5. K.I.T (keep it together).
While he can't say for sure that skipping a to - do list is your entire problem, a to - do is a fantastic way to stay organized.
Girls like organized guys for one reason : they get stuff done.
Think about it. Most guys are great at imagining results, without visualizing the process.
A to - do list keeps you in touch with the process, which nears you know how to get what you want. And if that's not the secret sauce then I don't know what is.
6. Find your edge.
It's simple. Girls fast aren't attracted to what's boring.
They find boring even unattractive, so if nothing else, do what you can to prevent falling into a predictable and mandane routine.
Here's what we're getting at. Every guy, no matter what, has something that gives them an edge.
Good news is that it's not the edge that drives girls crazy, it's the act of searching for it that does.
7. Reveal your “soft” spots.
Thousands of years of human evolution has made the biggest and strongest men desirable than the alternative.
However, it's the 21st century and girls don't need a guy to go out and kill a deer for dinner tonight.
No, relationships these days are more about connection than survival. And to connect with a girl, you'll have to open up and show her your soft spots.
8. Learn you.
This might be a bit of an underrated trait but if you want to be taken seriously by women it's essential.
That's because in general, girls like a guy who can think and express his opinions.
By having a wealth of knowledge, you easily facilitate conversation on a wide range of topic without fear and by this wealth of knowledge, and more importantly, perspective, you're in a better position to solve problems.
You might not know this, but a girl's level of infatuation for you, is directly correlated to how much you can make her laugh.
That's because according to one study, the more time a guy and girl spend laughing together, the more likely they are to develop attraction forward each other.
10. Get a side hustle.
If there's one thing successful guys know better than most, it's that at the end of an and hours work day, there's still work to be done.
Sure, your 9 - 5 job may have plenty of room to advance in the company, but is it really what you want to do for the rest of your life? Maybe not.
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