The soul searching is a relationship guide that helps both men and women who are looking or are in a relationship with someone whom they consider special that shows them the way they can perfect their relationship into a beautiful love story that can grow and blossom. And also it helps the single men and women out there to find or be found by their soul mates.
It is a great pleasure for me to share this amazing story about relationship with you’ll. It’s the culmination of my experience, I have to assist millions of people like you to improve communication with the opposite sex. By successfully understanding and meeting the challenges of a relationship. Stay tuned. Relationship is the way in which two or more people or things are connected. Considering my own understanding of the word. In the past generations, men and women wanted a partner who could fulfill their basic needs for security and survival. Women looked for a strong man who would be a good provider; men searched for a nurturing woman to make a home.
The new challenge of dating, is to find a partner who not only will be supportive of our physical needs for survival and security, but will support our emotional, mental, and spiritual needs as well.
It is no longer enough to just find someone who is willing to marry us, we want partners who will love us more as they get to know us: we want to live happily ever after. To find and recognize partners who can fulfill our needs for increased intimacy, good communication and a great love life. We need to update our dating skills.
Even if by good fortune you find a soul mate, without the right dating skills, you may not recognize him or her and get married.
By creating the right conditions for love to grow, our hearts opened, and we experienced a ‘soul love’, which loves no matter what. Discovering this unconditional love was the result of first creating the right conditions for love to grow.
So often in our dating relationships we misunderstand and misinterpret our partner’s actions and reactions. With a correct understanding of our different ways of thinking and feeling, dating can be a source of joy, support, pleasure, and fulfillment. Instead of a potential source of frustration, discouragement, worry and embarrassment.
Many men and women want their relationships to be loving and they definitely don’t understand each other. Without a deeper understanding of our differences, it is inevitable that we will continue to misinterpret our dating partners and create unnecessary problems.
When we misinterpret each other, it can cause us to sabotage our relationships unknowingly. To avoid do this, it is essential that we have a deeper understanding of the different worlds we come from.
No matter how sincere you are, if your partner is misinterpreting your innocent and automatic reactions and responses, your attempts to create a relationship may be unsuccessful.
To succeed in dating you need to consider how you will be interpreted as well.
The Essentials Stages of Dating
While many of us aren’t aware of this; YES! Dating do have essential stages that one needs to follow cautiously and keenly if one does want to have a lasting and a loving relationship with someone whom they consider special, ‘soulmate’.
Moving through the five essentials stages of dating creates the right conditions for you to develop the ability to ‘just know’ when the right person comes along. It also allows you to ‘just know’ when you are with the wrong person as well.
In most cases it takes both time and progression navigating through the essentials stages before you can recognize your true life partner and soul mate.
Dating is therefore made up of five stages; stage one; Attraction, stage two; Uncertainty, stage three; Exclusivity, stage four; Intimacy, and stage five; Engagement. We’ll discuss each of the stages, so that one can be able to understand it more clearly.
• Stage one: Attraction
In stage one of dating, we experience our initial attraction to a potential partner. The challenge in this stage is to make sure you get the opportunity to express that attraction and get to know a potential partner.
Stage two: Uncertainty
In this stage, we experience a shift from feeling attraction to feeling uncertain that our partner is right for us. The challenge in this stage is to recognize this uncertainty as normal and not be swayed by it. To be uncertain doesn’t mean that someone is not right for you. When you are dating someone who seems really special to you, it is quite normal suddenly to wonder whether you wish to continue dating that person.
• Stage three: Exclusivity
In stage three we feel a desire to date a person exclusively. We want the opportunity to give and receive love in a special relationship without competition.
The danger in this stage is that we become too comfortable and stop doing the little things that make our partners feel special.
• Stage four: Intimacy
In this stage we begin to experience real intimacy. Intimacy is a feeling or closeness and openness towards someone else, not necessarily involving sexuality. We feel relaxed enough to let down our guard and share ourselves more deeply than before. The opportunity of this stage is to experience the best in ourselves and our partner, while the challenge to deal with our less than best sides.
Stage five: Engagement
This is the final stage which is normally being described as the calm after the storm. In this stage most couples know each other in a much deeper way. They have been through so much ups and downs and due to this, they know they can get through anything together and are prepared to face anything else that comes their way together.
When couples get to this stage, they feel safe and calm and because of this, most couples who successfully get to this stage are more likely to stay together for a lifetime.
In conclusion, one of the reasons there is so much divorce today is that people do not move through the five essentials stages of dating. They rush through them or skip a few stages.
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