It is fantastic to have a man or woman who is ready to settle down with you. However, there are a few other things I believe you should think about before making your final decision. It is preferable to be prepared for a marriage than to believe that you are prepared when you are not.
Here are four things to think about before getting married.
1. A Deep Affection For One AnotherLove and likeness may appear to be the same thing but they are not.
A man or woman may also confuse lust for love due to their similar actions. Likeness can make you want to stay with someone, but when you see another competing option, you will abandon the person and pursue the new one. Lust will cause you to concentrate on what you want from the man or woman. Love on the other hand, will make you see the person as the one who can provide you with the joy you seek. It will cause you to avoid seeing anyone else.
You will concentrate on what you can do to make your lover happy rather than what he or she will do to make you happy. Lovers considering marriage should be certain that their feelings for each other are based on strong love, not lust or likeness. Nothing else matters when they have a strong love for each other; nothing can make them give up on each other. They will be ready to face their future together "rain or shine."
2. A High Level Of Trust In One Another If you are suspicious of a man or woman you want to marry, I recommend that you build trust before getting married. Before getting married, lovers should have a lot of trust in each other. Your husband will work with other women and your wife will work with other men.
There will be times when he/she will arrive home late and his/her battery will be dead, making it impossible to reach him/her by phone. There may be people who want to cause problems between you two and will come to spread rumors and lies. If you didn't trust your lover, you might act in a way that ruins your marriage.
3. Mutual Understanding Between The TwoMake an effort to gain a better understanding of the person you wish to marry. You should be aware of what makes him/her angry, happy, likes and dislikes. All of this will help you when you become husband and wife.
4. Maturity Level You Should Be Mentally, Emotionally, Financially And Age Wisely Matured Mental maturity requires you to think things through before acting on them. You will be able to solve a problem before it becomes a major one. When your spouse offends you in public, emotional maturity will help you maintain control. Because you now have control over your emotions, you will never beat your wife, whether at home or outside, regardless of the level of provocation. Financial maturity will require you to provide for the needs of your family while also giving to your parents and in-laws.
These four things should be considered before entering into a marriage and if the two of you can sincerely build yourselves in these four areas, you may be able to live together like a perfect couple, with a home worthy of emulation.
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