The success of your marriage depends on your maturity and understanding. No partner is without an Issue because we are all humans.
1. This is another important issue I want to talked about in tonight broadcast.
2. I employ you to pay attention because it will help to have an insight into what you want to enter into in marriage.
3. Marriage is all about two people from different background coming together to unite.
4. Marriage is about two people from different family uniting together to become one.
5. Marriage is all about disconnection and reconnection.
6. Husband disconnect from his family and wife disconnect from her family and both of them now come together to start their own family.
7. Marriage is about two people who does not have the same understanding coming together to become one.
WHAT TO KNOW:
A. Marriage is the first institution that was founded by God himself on earth. Gen. 2: 20 - 25, Prov. 18: 22.
B. Marriage institution is the most important that every man and woman that want to fulfill their destiny must enroll into.
C. Marriage is a team work. Amos. 3: 3.
D. Marriage is an agreement between two people.
E. Marriage is like a battle ground.
In a battle ground, we have victors and victims.
In the battle ground of marriage, you are either a victor or a victim.
F. Marriage is like a fight piloted by two pilot.
G. There is no marriage without challenge.
H. There is no marriage without opposition either before or after marriage.
I. There is no marriage without ups and down.
J. There is no marriage without issue.
K. There is no marriage without problem.
L. There is no marriage without trouble.
M. There is no marriage without quarreling.
N. There is no marriage without misunderstanding.
O. There is no marriage that is 100% peaceful.
FACTS TO KNOW:
1. Premarital intimacy is wrong before marriage.
2. Having concubine is wrong in marriage.
3. Unfaithfulness is wrong in marriage.
*Unfaithfulness can lead to divorce.
4. In marriage the husband is the head.
5. The husband is the driver while the wife is the engine room.
6. The both party must plan and work together.
7. Both of you must be prayerful.
8. Both of you must do everything possible to stick with each other.
9. Both of you must always pray together. Matt. 18: 20.
10. You must pray seriously for the grace of God.
11. Marriage is all about one man and one wife.
12. In Godly marriage there is no space for second wife.
13. The problem the world is facing today is as a result of two wives.
*Witchcraft can be trace to polygamy family.
*Witchcraft started from two wives.
14. Divorce is not advisable.
15. The best marriage is the marriage where the husband eyes is blind and the wife mouth is seal up.
16. The wife must know how to cook otherwise you will loose your husband to other woman.
17. Both of you must have respect for each other.
18. The husband must love his wife and the wife in return must love his husband.
19. The issue in your marriage should not be carried to the public.
20. Both of you should always tell each other the truth and nothing but the truth.
21. If your marriage is right you will enjoy but if it is wrong, you have to endure it.
22. You must not deny your wife or your husband sex.
23. Learn to listen to each other.
24. Your wife is not a slave and your husband is not a servant.
25. Learn how to assist one another.
26. Don’t leave the whole housework for your wife alone always render her help whenever you are around.
27. Show your wife love and in return she too will show you love.
28. Learn how to buy her gifts.
29. Always praise your wife.
30. Don’t scold her in the public.
31. Be of support to one another.
32. Be a caring father and mother to your children because marriage is all about procreation.
33. Respect your in-laws because they are like your biological family.
34. Don’t be a greedy husband.
35. Be concerned about the welfare of your children.
36. If your marriage is okay, everything about you will be okay.
37. If your marriage is peaceful, there will be all round peace in your home.
38. If you succeed in your marriage, you will experience success almost in every areas of life.
39. If your marriage is right, you will live a happy life.
40. Separation is not allowed.
Wife sleeping in different room and husband sleeping in different room.
41. If you marry your enemy, everything about you will be wrong.
42. Be a good teacher with your wife.
43. Don’t be a wife beater or husband beater.
44. Be your husband mirror.
45. Support your husband financially in time of need.
46. Don’t be insulting and don’t ever insult your in-laws.
47. Know each other weakness and do your best to manage it.
48. Don’t ever go to bed without reconciliation in the case of any misunderstanding.
49. Let your wife have a say in the family.
50. Learn how to say, I am sorry.
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