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Steps to get your ex-boyfriend back

1) Make him miss you. When it comes to getting back with a man, making him miss you is the most surefire way to do so.

When he misses you, he longs for you again, and is that much quicker to pick up the phone and start things over.

But he can’t miss you if you don’t leave him alone, keep begging him for forgiveness, or text bomb him hoping he will see the error of his ways.

A no-contact period is the first step suggested by all relationship experts for women who want to win their ex back.

2. Agree or apologize. As important as it is to stay out of contact, a little note that lets him know you agree that a break is a good thing won’t hurt.

This is exactly the opposite of what he is expecting from you.

Wishing him the best at the end in a formal but mysterious way starts triggering those feelings in him as well.

He’s expecting you to act psycho to remind him why he broke up in the first place.

When you don’t, it sends a message to him that maybe he shouldn’t have let you go after all.

3. Stop focusing on what you have lost. Focus instead on what you have to gain.

When we are wrapped up in grief, the only outcome we can think of is getting that person back into our lives.

When we focus on the bigger picture, it’s easier to navigate that grief.

This break is a good period, a rebooting time, so to speak, and when you both have rebooted, you both will have grown and have so much more to gain when you do come back together.

4. Live your life for you again, not for you as a couple. In fact, this may be why he broke up with you in the first place.

He felt the pressure that he was the only thing in your life making you happy.

As nice as that is, it puts responsibility on him that he may not feel up to.

When you create an awesome life for yourself, it sends him the message that the pressure of your happiness is not ALL on his shoulders.

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