Firstly, not all girls like bad boys, let's be clear about that. However, those who do tend to like them for a number of key reasons. Every woman has had a friend who dated a guy who was clearly bad news, but she just couldn't resist. Maybe, that"friend" was you. And yet, despite all the warnings and red flags, the pull of dating a bad boy was just too strong. So, even with all of the signs that heartbreak is on the horizon, why do women still find bad boys so appealing?
1 They feel protected by them
Who who feel besieged by threats often fall for tough guys. With their disregard for social norms and willingness to quickly escalate frustration to hostility, threats and aggression. It's likely that some women feel more protected by the tough guy and his ease with aggression. Of course, there's no one to act as a buffer if that aggression gets turned around and comes your way.
2 Women find them sexier and better in bed
There's something about bad boys that makes them so sexy. Maybe it's all the drama or the simmering anger passion. Whatever it is, women want it. Then there's a stereotype that that bad boys are great in bed, they're more exciting, more adventurous and more passionate than nice, normal guys. Women are attracted to that as much as anything else.
3 Women love self-confidence in a man
These bad boys wouldn't have the power to attract girls if their level of confidence was low. The point is that the level of confidence they possess is so high, it seems like their attitude is overflowing with it, which can be seen in their friends, the food they choose to eat , and so much more.
4 They free the bad girl in them
A physiologist explains that girls who have a concealed inner rebellious side are easily attracted to men who can release that out of them. Usually, in girls, this trait was suppressed during childhood and one of the easiest ways for them to get it all out is to start dating a rebellious guy.
5 Bad boys are attractive
Most bad boys are attractive according to many women, and there's no doubt about that. They simply don't care about anything. For them, there's no rule book or specific rules they follow. They make their own rules and it seems like they always live on the edge. Even though they love to be in control and are passionate about their own beliefs, they still know the right way to treat a lady and make her feel pretty good.
6 They are addicted to drama
Women may also find themselves highly attracted to a bad boy because they're addicted to the drama that being in a relationship with unpredictable, arrogant and egolistical person can provide. After all, dating a bad boy can put you on an emotional whirlwind filled with highs and lows that can be exciting and disheartening all at once. And in many instances, experiencing the thrill, drama and anxiety that come from dating a bad boy can actually stem from your innate desires to get attention from other us.
7 They think they can change them
In many instances, women often fall for the bad boy because they believe they can change his rebellious and renegade ways. However, if you try to build a relationship based on your own need and desire to change your partner's behaviour, you're on a detrimental and destructive path. Many women are under the impression that they can fix a bad boy's tendancies and mold him into the caring, considerate, and committed person they want him to be. But it's important to keep in mind that the best indicator of a man's future behaviour is his past behaviour, so if you're hoping to tie the knot with a man who's consistently shown that he doesn't want to be tied down, you're hitching your wagon to a man who doesn't want to get hitched.
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