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3 Ways to Get the Girl You Want Even If She's Out of Your League

High school and college are oftentimes filled with unrequited love and crushes. For some people, this means relentlessly chasing after the object of their affection and never giving up. For others, it means waiting for the right time to make a move.

If you happen to be one of those who think you're out of your crush's league, don't worry! There are plenty of ways to show her you care and get the girl you want without being too pushy or too shy.

Be Confident.

People aren't fooled by the wannabe douchebag who follows girls around and tries too hard to be cool. Think about it: if a girl's crushes are for her alone, she doesn't need you to be the coolest or the most popular guy in school. And she certainly doesn't need you to make her feel nervous, nervous, nervous every time you're near her.

Instead, play up your innate confidence and charisma. Talk about the things that make you stand out, and speak confidently and playfully. The second she can see how amazing you are, she'll never look at you with fear in her eyes again.

Don't Be Afraid to Talk to Her.

Like I said earlier, a girl is much less likely to fall in love with a guy who shows no interest in her. Just man up and have a chit chat with her. Stay true to yourself, get to know her likes and try to relate them with your experiences just to know if you are compatible.

Get Her Attention.

The first thing you need to do is win her over with charm. You can do this by taking her on fun dates that give you the chance to get to know her better and learn what makes her tick.

It can be as simple as going to a comedy show or taking her out to coffee or tea. Even if you're sure she won't be interested in you, you may get lucky and she'll surprise you. There's a good chance she'll be flattered that you took the time to get to know her and that you're interested in her. It could also help to go above and beyond to be a bit more interesting.

Even if she doesn't end up liking you instantly, you'll have at least gotten her to like you, which will prove to her that you weren't a fluke or a lucky drunk call.

Never Sweat The Small Stuff.

Sometimes girls might be intimidated by a guy who knows what he wants and gets what he wants. For them, it might feel like a risk. But that's only because they don't understand the true meaning of love. Your female bestie doesn't need to be on your level to love you. The girl you're trying to get will go to your level to be with you, so work on your skills first.

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