Couples in romantic unions of all walks of life always strive to have and maintain a happy loving marriage devoid of cheating. As it were, they're always in a constant trajectory to make things work out so as to ensure their significant others get the best in the union and remain contented.
Nontheless, no matter how much such patners struggle to satisfy their other significant others in the marriage union, they at times miss the clout. This makes their significant others to engage in extramarital affairs and start cheating on them.
Even though, at times the cheating spouse would do so as a result of lack of satisfaction in the relationship that is outwardly displayed by her partner. This then means that cheating would become a viable option for them so as to satisfy their unmet desires.
People would also want to cheat on their spouses clandestinely so as to maintain their unions as well as satisfying their unmet desires through extramarital affairs. Below are some of the ways you can employ in cheating on your spouse without getting noticed.
Establish a strict schedule
This could be the surest way to cheat and get unnoticed. Always have a strict predictable schedule of activities that won't raise suspicion at her. For example; the time you always get home from work, when you usually get to work from home, how and when you spend your free time. The idea here is to hoodwink her that things are normal going by your predictable schedule yet you fix some time within your schedule to cheat without her noticing.
Openly discuss about it with your spouse
Here, the discussion isn't solely inclined on you being open about your cheating escapades but listening keenly to your wife's worries so as to identify the sources of her suspicions. Once you get to know her sources of suspicion, you can rectify them in an effort to hiding your cheating escapades more. In so doing this, give her a listening ear. Also apologize to her for making her feel the way she feels. Assure her that everything is under control and as well clear the fear and suspicion from them.
Modify your demeanors that make her feel suspicious
This is the altering of your behaviours so as to make her feel secure if she's been feeling suspicious that you're cheating on her. Before you do this, ensure you had at one point had a conversation with her to learn the sources of her suspicions. But remember not to change your behaviours drastically over a short period of time as this may again raise her eyebrows. The ultimate goal here is to win her trust fully as you continue cheating.
Do away with your phone messages
The romantic phone messages with your extramarital partner in your phone can be used by your wife as an evidence to account for your cheating escapades. Remember, you want to maintain your marriage with your wife and at the same time cheat on her clandestinely to meet your unmet desires. So ensure you do away with your phone's short messages. This has to be the case since when your wife starts doubting you for cheating, your phone will be the first source of evidence she'll go for.
Go for a single communicating channel
Make it a habit of communicating to your side lover using a single channel of communication. This reduces your chances of being caught as using many channels would leave behind many traces. At best, always use a private number in communicating to her that's not known to your wife. Even as you use a single communication channel, remember to always do away with the evidence.
Keep it to yourself or rather to your trusted social circles
Always keep your cheating escapades to yourself. Remember the only person who can best keep your secrets is you. Or if you're to share such experiences, always share them to one or few of your trusted confidants. Also, you can share them to only friends of your social circle whom you dearly trust. Again, if you share them to anyone, remember people's social circles are always broad and as they share such stories, they would finally land in your wife's ears.
Give it a break
If your cheating escapades continue to pile endless suspicions at your wife every now and again even after you try to clear the air, give it a break before you revert. The break is necessary to make things cool down. But if the suspicions become unbearable to you, simply quit from cheating. But again, quit the cheating behaviour with moderation as messy quits can make your side chick charge at your wife. This could prove fatal for your marriage.
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