Readiness for a relationship entail much more than most people think. You may have undergone a serious heartbreak thinking jumping to another relationship will make you feel good. My friend, you are hurting yourself twice. After a breakup with someone, you need time. Not time to get a new partner but to heal. You may be wondering how long is needed to heal. This is up to you to see. These are steps to know that you are ready for a relationship.
Don't go for appearance when looking for a woman to date. Nowadays people look at the inner looks. Look at a woman's heart before marrying her. Looks fade off the more she gets old. Be the real man and get a quality woman. The moment you go for looks then all will be lost. A man needs to stop looking at how big or good a woman's body parts are. Women are the same. Just choose one with the best character. You'll fail the moment you prioritize a woman's looks.
Not looking for a partner in loneliness. This is another mistake made by most people after a breakup. My friend, don't get a partner out of desperation and loneliness. This will affect your relationship terribly. Get someone out of a peaceful heart. With this, all I'm trying to mean is you to become patient, get over her then move on. Partners gotten under desperation will always leave you in the same situation.
Not entering into a relationship to show your ex. This is a way of bragging of how good you can do without your partner. It's a pawn move to take. Imagine getting your ex better than the one you are tying to show off! You will have lost twice. The worst comes along when the relationship doesn't last. Just sit cool, try and make issues with your ex. They say that better the devil you know than the angel you don't know. Be wise.
Giving your partner time to decide on crucial issues about the relationship. Remember always that contributory decisions are needed from both sides. You need to consider her's too. Don't be the selfish bird who wants all the worms for itself. A woman's decision is something to be respected. Allow her ideas to work too. Life in a relationship will be sweet if everybody's energy is felt inside.
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