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10 Ways That Makes A Guy Attractive When Texting a Girl

As you probably know all too well, texting is an absolutely essential part of the flirting process.

1. Optimize the number exchange.

If you think about it, getting your number in each other's phones is your first opportunity to show her the kind of guy you are over text.

And like any first impression, you definitely want to get it right.

2. Never send two texts in a row.

It may not feel like it, but the chances are, half of the stuff you text a girl does not require a quick response.

And no, just because she doesn't respond right away doesn't mean she doesn't like you.

So instead of following up before she's even had time to read your text, show her how patient you are and wait for her to respond before you send another one.

3. Know your emoji limit.

Texting is its own language. And like any language, somethings can get very lost in translation.

So one thing we do about that, is to use emojis to help convey the emotion behind what we're saying.

So in order to show a girl you can actually use words, and do actually have things to say make your emojis count and limit them to 3 - 4 per conversation.

4. Don't text paragraphs.

Want a quick way to creep a girl out and get your number blocked? Try sending her a long wall of text to read.

Guys look, when it comes to flirting, not only are long texts incredible intense, but they also show a concerning lack of basic social awareness, so if you have something lengthy you need to tell her, do it the old fashioned way! Which is in person or on the phone.

5. Don't send line - by - line texts.

Just like you should try to never send huge blocks of texts, this can happen when we're trying to sound in text the same way he do in person.

But instead of creating a natural back - and - fourth, if your texts start stacking up it just makes you seem kind of annoying, and make your texts hard to read.

6. Don't do one word responses.

If you're a man of few words, now's the time to listen up : and not only could this make a girl think you're annoyed by her texts, but it could also head to her giving up simply because texting you isn't any fun.

7. Never end a text with a period.

Your english teacher are gonna hate us for this one, but one trick that's guaranteed to keep your texts naturally conversational and fun to never end your last sentence with a period.

We know, it doesn't make any sense, right? But if you really look at it ending your text on a period actually makes you seem rigid and uptight.

8. Make sure she got home ok.

Not only is this an incredibly considerate gesture in general, but because it's quick and casual, doing it via text message is ideal for when you're just getting to know a girl.

So after your girl heads home for the night, take the opportunity to show her you care and send her a brief, thoughtful text making sure all is well.

9. Be aware of texting at night.

We all know that texting in the middle of the night generally only means one thing.

But if you're just getting to know a girl, and she's not the one texting on the late night, don't think that you have to be one to do it.

Let her be the one to text you after hours, or just wait to text until the next morning.

10. Don't wait too long to ask her out.

These days texting is a huge part of courting a woman.

So if a girl ask you to text her, or you already are texting her, that pretty much mean it's ok for you to ask her out and texting provides a perfect way to do just that.

So before you go talking about everything over text, ask her out and talk face - to - face instead.

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