Dating men in Nairobi is one of the challenging things a woman can experience in the city. This is because of the cocktail characters you are bound to meet in this town. The dating scene especially is littered with interesting personalities. Before dating a Nairobi man there are things you should be ready to expect from him: Here are strange peculiarities you should expect while dating Nairobi man.
If you are in a relationship with a Nairobi man, should he upset you, then do not be surprised if he shows up to apologize with a bottle of your favorite brew. Nairobi men just do not buy flowers. The sooner you understand this, the sooner you can begin accepting the thoughts behind his actions.
2.The metrosexual man
The average Nairobi man is now more metrosexual than he was say a decade ago. Therefore if you intend to date or if you are dating a Nairobi man , do not be surprised to meet the who spends more on hair and skin care products than you do. He will also wear clothes that are way more expensive than yours.
3.They Do it at a fast speed
Maybe because everything in the city is fast moving , men couple easily . The dating tradition moves fast from date , a drink to having sekx. The Nairobi man is not one to court you and talk about where your relationship is headed for hours and hours. The man will be either ignoring you or chasing you at breakneck speed.
4.He works hard but plays hard
He will be arriving home at midnight. This is because he ‘works hard’ and at the end of the day, he also likes to play hard. If you are going to settle down with one, coming home after midnight especially on the weekends is something that you should get used to.
5. Angry because their women are on periods
We all like getting intimate. But for some strange reasons, some Nairobi men feel they have a right to have ‘it’ when they want ‘it’. When you tell them you are on your periods, most always sulk and get angry as if it were your fault. Other doubting Thomases will push the joke far by insisting that they want to confirm. Look guys, don’t be mad on ladies . It’s not like they invented periods to annoy you, they are also pissed off by the fact that they have to bleed every now and then.
6. He is straight forward
The Nairobi man is bold, confident and straightforward. He is not afraid to walk up to any woman he fancies and to say exactly what he is thinking. He doesn’t waste his time, neither does he sit around waiting for a woman to give him body language that suggests that she wants him to chase her. He will keep at it until she tells him off. The downside of this is that he may come off as a little intrusive.
7. He expects homemade meals
Perhaps because he comes from a patriarchal society, the Nairobi man will expect the woman in his life to cook for him. This will not matter whether the woman in question is just a casual girlfriend or a wife. He will expect hot meals.
8. Reciprocity belief – Northing is for Free
This is perhaps the most unsavory trait of the Nairobi man. This is because in the city everything is earned . The attitude has now spilled into the dating scene.When a Nairobi man spends his time and his money on you, be sure that he expects something in return.
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