Being in a serious relationship is the best ever feeling knowing that your partner trusts you to a certain percentage, though it should be 100% trust which is not usually attained. There are five things that you must do irrespective of other people's opinions:
1. Touching your spouse's phone.
We are talking of your wife or husband to be, and for married couples, that is your partner until death do you apart, there should not be hidden agendas behind the curtains whatsoever. You must confirm daily whether he or she is cheating on you since you can't life with lies forever. Ensure that you know the lock patterns and pins of the device of your partner, that will help you to prevent cheating and build up trust in your relationship or marriage.
2. Visit your partner randomly without informing him or her.
Some people could advice you not to give your partner a surprise visit. Always pay your spouse or partner random visits without their knowledge, there are no reasons of informing your partner that you are visiting him or her unless you are aware of a planned trip. Your spouse should be alert at all times that you might appear and therefore avoid engaging in silly activities.
3. Do not avoid a call or a text from your partner at any times.
The habit of not picking a call or replying to text to your spouse raises many questions in the mind of your partner and can end up causing divorce. This will make your partner overthink. If in case you find a missed call, try to respond to it as fast as possible and apologized for not picking or responding in time. This will save your relationship or marriage.
Do not feel too lazy to use the word sorry whenever you make a mistake. Swallow the pride and never think saying sorry means begging. This is your partner, make him or her feel good by doing the best you can to him or her. Do not be moved by other people's opinions for example if you are a man that apologising is submitting to a woman. Remember the Bible doesn't include your friends in marriage, it is written that you both will leave your parents and unite to be one, be one kindly.
5. Introducing your partner to your friends and family.
This action will create a larger family. Whenever you have a misunderstanding, your partner can reach one of the family members who will help you solve your issues. This is one of the techniques that makes your partner to be responsible and avoid any acts that can ruin their reputation knowing that your family members and friends know them.
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