1.Re-think of the reasons you came together. 

Try to remember of when you first when you met:

a.What drew me to this person ?

b.What qualities did you find valuable? What made them so amazing,are they there still?

The reasons you came together reminds you of the reasons to stay together, and this strengthens your already-existing relationship.

Allow constructive criticism by trying to ask your partner what they love and what they hate about you and try to adjust.

2. Improve your communication. 

Communication is and important tool in any relationship to work.Good communication is always asking your partner a reasonable questions, skillful listening to their answering of questions,then giving your opinion.Cease from Irritating questions that will cause frustrations especially immediately one comes in from work. Practice effective speech by engaging your loved one in a conversation of their interest.Calm down Incase you are provoked then approach the topic again by drawing your partner in dialogue.

3. Try to do something both of you enjoy together.

Do what you both enjoy,if you like swimming you can go to your best swimming site and enjoy sweet times together.t doesn't have to be something extraordinary but something that you can both enjoy.Avoid talking sad stories of your past.

4. Avoid external influences.

Sometimes parents, relatives and friends may be the cause of breakups.Understand the role of each external party in in your relationship,avoid those with negative energy and keep up with those giving positive energy.Chances are that parents, relatives and friends don't hold the answers to your problems.Open up the communication with your partner and confess your concerns.

5. Forgive each other. 

Cease from the bitterness, anger, and animosity holding you back from progressing with your partner. Forget the bad emotions keeping you from true forgiveness. There is no reason to drag the past into your future since what happened had passed and can not add value to your relationship instead it will keep hurting.

6. Come clean about one thing.C

Certainly some things should simply be kept to ourselves since revealing them may hurt our loved ones,also honesty and admitting one secret or mistake to may make them want to open up, too.

7. Set boundaries with each other.

Arelationship is a two-way traffic.Tell your partner honestly what you would like them to do (or not do),be prepared to accept the boundaries they set for you, too so as to avoids arguments, explosions, and setbacks.It promotes mutual agreement/ sense of security if both partners are respectful toward the other's wishes.

While we should never remain in a relationship that jeopardizes our well-being,trying the above tips will reduce relationship breakups.

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