Many women think that they have to be skinny, beautiful, smart, and have a winning personality to get a guy to like them. That is not true! Our society beats down our self-esteem sometimes and makes us think that we are not worthy.
1.Don’t chase him.
If you have high self-esteem, you won’t be needy. And if you’re not needy, then you won’t chase him. Let’s face it ladies, men are hard-wired to chase US. They are hunters.
From a biological perspective, they’re programmed to “spread their seed” so to speak. And women are programmed to be picky and selective for whom we allow to be the father of our children. So keep it that way – stop chasing him.
Happy people are infectious. People are drawn to them because they make others feel good. No one wants to hang out with someone who always complains and is an energy vampire. So love yourself, laugh, have fun, and… be happy.
This is still in the kindness category. When people are kind, they can identify with other people’s experiences and feelings. When someone can say, “I understand what you’re going through,” it makes us feel better. And guys are no different. They like girls who can express empathy to others.
4.Take care of yourself.
This doesn’t mean you need to lose a bunch of weight or wear tons of makeup every day. But if you love yourself, you will try to look your best. Men like a woman who takes care of herself. And that doesn’t just mean physically. Feed your mind and your soul too. Take care of yourself in every way possible.
4.Be genuine and real. Don’t be fake. Men can spot a fake a mile away. Be yourself. Be genuine and real. Because if you’re not, you might snag him and then after dating a while, your real self will come out. And he might not like it. So be yourself from the very beginning – that way, there will be no surprises for either one of you.
As a strong, independent career woman myself, I know that it’s not easy to sit back and let a man take the lead sometimes. We’re so used to getting everything done ourselves. But part of being feminine is to let go of control occasionally. Men find that attractive in a woman – at least some of the time.
6.Be self-confident. Confidence is sexy. Trust me, I have been told by many guys that this is the most attractive quality in a woman. In fact, they would much rather be with an average-looking confident woman than a super model who feels badly about herself.
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