Sometimes when you deal with anger carelessly it may lead to a fight or even damages. When your husband is too angry do the following to settle the situation:
1. Remain silent over it
Try to control your emotions so that you don't become angry too. Dealing with your angry man may interfere with your emotions since he will be too defensive against you, a thing that will disappointed you. You can control this by remaining silent and giving him time to cool down.
2. Talk with respect
Talk to him with respect by considering what you are telling him. Know his feelings and express your view with respect to how he is feeling. Be careful not to increase his anger that may cause more problems.
3. Be patient
When you continue addressing it, then it may make him be more angry. Therefore, it will be better for you to wait until he addresses his feelings himself. Don't rush to know what exactly is making him angry. When you remain calm then, you will be a wise wife ever.
4. Realize you role
Are you the cause of all this mess? Try to know yourself and where you have made a mistake that has really offended him. Once you identify your mistake it will be easier for you to apologize thus calming the anger.
5. Stay away
Sometimes men get more irritated when they see the person who is offending them. Once you realize he is angry, go and visit your friend or out for a vacation just to give him time. This with time will rest reduce hi anger.
6. Make it a secret first
Do not go out and start telling your friends and family members how your guy is. This is because he will not be happy when someone else tells him about it and he may still get angry even if he was in a good condition. Therefore, it is good to keep it by yourself and try solving it first.
7. Pray for it
It is good also to ask God's power over it. Before you go to bed make a prayer and pray for him that God may intervene and help cease his anger too. To God everything is possible.
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