But some of us have already made many mistakes along the way ,and havea all kinds of painfull experiences and memories .How can we start to put things right again???
1 We may need to apologise yo our spouse ,however strange that may feeel,and show we are genuinely sorry for the mistakes we have made in the past.
2 We can show that we are willing to change ,and that we want to learn a new way to love each other.
3 We can listen to what our spouse will need from us to begin to rebuild the relationship.
4. It is important to remember that there are differences between men and women .Men usually desire sex more frequently ,and enjoy sexual play and variety ,whereas women usually enjoy the emotional sense of being together ,feeling close ,being touched tenderly ,and having more consitent lovemaking techniques.
5. Understanding that husbands and wives are different ,and taking the time to try and meet the other person's needs are big steps towards growing closer together sexually.
6. We were made to be different to help us explore our relationship to encourage us to take the time to communiccate with each other,and to work together to find ways to help the other person to be happy.
7. It's good when we share our hopes and fears about the sexual side of our relationship .This may be difficult if we have not learned to talk about our sexual feelings ,but talking about what we like and appreciate about our sexual relationship together can be easier than talking about our sexual relationship together can be easier than talking about our difficulties.
8. Take it in turns to share one good thing about your love making and try to build those positive experiences into your times together.
9. Talk about your fears about sex too . when you feel able ,and then do all you can to take away your spouse's fears about rejection pain,pregnacy or discomfort.
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