There are many reasons why you should not rush to make love with a divorced man. Be Keen always and ask these questions first. Once you have the answers, then proceed and make your decision.
1. Has he gone through legal divorce process?
As you know separating from your partner is a process. You still exist as a couple until the whole process is done. Before you fall in love with him try to find out how he has handled his separation process so far.
When he is through with the legal process then you will be free to fall in love with him.
2. How many kids does he have?
This is a man who has stayed with his wife for sometime. It is good to be aware of this as it will help you on how to make your decision. This will also depend on you as an individual if you are ready to take care of children who belong to another woman.
3. How many women has he married so far?
It might be his behaviour to marry a woman and divorce her. You can be the next victim and same may happen to you too. Find it from his close friends and even relatives and ask them about his marriage life.
4. Who requested for the separation?
Be sure about the man you want to be in love with. Try to collect information about his separation whether it was his wife who initiated it or somebody else.
5. What was the reason for divorce?
It will be a wise thing for you to know the cause of all this mess. This will help you adjust yourself and know how to behave in case you agree to be in a relationship with him.
In addition you will also be able to tell if your love will be compatible with what you want from a man.
6. What is the source of his money?
This should not be a hindering factor but it is important to know so that you can plan yourself on how to help each other grow financially. It will also equip you to plan your future life with this man.
7. Are your marriage goals similar?
Do not fall for him blind without knowing him better. Ask him to tell you how he plans your life with you, his life goal and objectives.
Try to compare with your goals as well. When you notice that you have resembling visions, then he will be the right man.
8. Is he still emotional?
He will always tell you sweet word and even promise you big world just for you. All this is to ensure that he confuses you and wins your heart.
Be clever enough to observe his behaviours too. This will help you to know if he is still emotional about his past relationships that led to divorce. If he is still in this situation, then be sure your relationship will be full of sorrows and it won't last.
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