Marriage is only sweet if there is peace and love in it. What factors contribute to marital harmony? You'd inquire. We can say that the main reason many marriages are peaceful is that they are founded on true love. But I also want you to know that no matter how much the couple loves themselves, if there is no tolerance, mutual understanding, and perseverance, the marriage may fail after it has lost its peace.
Many disagreements can arise in a marriage. If not handled properly, such disagreements can destroy a marriage. Many healthy marriages that are still going strong today have overcome many of these obstacles. The way those involved handle and manage such marriages is usually the key to their health. Gone are the days when a couple would run to their respective parents for help with minor marital issues. In this article, Mr Counselor explains how you and your partner can resolve marital disputes without upsetting your parents' peace.
1. Get rid of your bad friends before making new good ones.
Bad friends can have an impact on or even cause marital problems. They might tell you that your wife is bad for you. Or that your husband is unkind to you. You may begin to feel bad if you read meaning into this. This can cause disagreements in your marriage, which can lead to a breakup or divorce.
However, if you surround yourself with good friends who will encourage, influence, and advise you positively, you will be able to solve and prevent marital disputes even without your parents' knowledge.
2. Approach each and every disagreement with love.
You will always want to make your partner happy if you love them. When there is a disagreement in your marriage, treat it with love. Don't be overly sensitive. Be as considerate as possible at all times.
3. Put your spouse's happiness ahead of your own.
This may not sit well with many people, but it is the most effective way of resolving or preventing marital disputes. You would not want to see your spouse sad or unhappy if you value their happiness more than your own.
If your spouse's happiness is more important to you than your own, you will treat or handle any marital conflict in their favor. This is an excellent method for resolving marital issues without involving your parents.
4. Prioritize your marriage above all else.
Your marriage's health and strength should be more important to you than anything else. You must prioritize your marriage above all else. It should be the most important aspect of your life. Of course, if your marriage is shattered, you won't be able to concentrate on anything else. You can't chase a rat when your house is on fire, and you can't do other important things if your marriage is in disarray.
5. Play the role of your spouse's boyfriend or girlfriend all over again.
This is a request for you to restart your love journey from the beginning by learning from the mistakes you've made in your marriage so far. If your marriage is failing, especially if you believe you can't control the conflicts, give up everything and start over.
Spend time with your spouse as you would with a new lover. Respect and love should be shown to them. Do not take the disagreements too seriously; they will fade away with time.
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