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How Wives Hurt Their Husbands Without Knowing – Don't Ever Do These 3 things

Wife’s unintentionally hurt their husbands in all sorts of ways but the biggest ones relate to respect and behaviour in front of others.If you have a good husband he wants to make you happy so here's some general ways we don't even consider hurtful.

1.Lusting & Flirting

Talking about other men or hinting at the attractiveness of other men is degrading and disrespectful to our husbands and creates insecurity in their hearts.

2.Hold him responsible for your emotional well-being

Acting as if he’s the reason you feel bad today – and every other day you feel bad – puts undue pressure on him and he doesn’t know what to do with it. And you don’t have to tell him. You can simply and subtly just be in a bad mood towards him – without releasing him from guilt or letting him know he’s done nothing wrong. He will accept the “hint” as his own responsibility. He will think it’s his fault even if it’s not. And he carries the pain.

3.Comparison

It’s important to not go to your husband with every comparison that you view because it can make him feel less than stellar. When you feel the need to compare yourself or your family, think about the blessings that you have, and turn to scripture for guidance – you’ll discover a whole new realm of inspiration that can be a huge influence within your everyday life.

4.Telling him how something should be done.

If I were sweeping, and he were to come show me if you did it different it would sweep better, I'd certainly not take offense. I'd say, “dang! I never thought of that.” If he is trying to do laundry or something out of his speciality areas, you can go refold those jeans the opposite way when he isn't looking, you can not go say, “ hey those go the other way.” Men get their feelings hurt and feel like your complaining.

I could go on and on, but like I said because the way we think, we would more likely avoid saying things that would hurt our feelings without considering they are totally different

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