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7 Ways That Makes A Girl Chase You

1. Keep the lead open.

If there's one thing guys do to kill a woman's interest in them, it's to waste their lead by prematurely celebrating the win.

Here's what we mean : Say a guy and a girl are chatting, she's laughing and smiling, and he's beginning to think what he's doing is working.

But instead of building on the nice progress he had doing, he gets excited and stops doing the one thing that the girl was enjoying.

2. Put her in the friend zone.

Think again. Because just like the friend zone drives guys to become a little bit.

Needy, it also does the same thing to girl. But here's a question for you : If you actually found yourself in position to friend zone a girl.

Would you? If you're like most guys, you wouldn't take the risk of losing a girl who's into you.

But if being chased is really what you want, you're going to figure out a way to make a girl wonder if you're more than just a friend.

3. Warm up her social circle.

One thing that definitely makes a girl hold back on how much she goes after a guy, is how her friends see him.

Which means that if a guy is good for girl he must also be good for the group.

Now of course, there are plenty of women out there who will break from their social circles, but in many cares, it's pretty much a rule of nature that of you want a girl to feel like she's even allowed to chase you, you're going to have to warm upto her group of friends first.

4. Leave if you have to leave.

Because at the end of the day : you can't really be chased if you don't ever go, right?

But really, to women, there's two kinds of guys in this world : the one who always go and one who can always stay and the ones who can stay.

And it's the guys who can't always stick around, that really get a woman's attention.

5. Tell her she's a distraction.

Here's a little secret women really love actually not be in your central of Universe but only if what they're vying for your attention with, has to do with your goals meaning, girls find productivity to be incredibly, chaseable attractive.

So if you're a busy guy, here's a way to get a woman to chase you : (in a nice way) tell her she distracts you.

Not only will she not be able to ignore the fact that you got things going on that aren't her, but saying you can't ignore her when she's around.

Can be an amazing compliment. Just be careful how you say it.

6. Contrast your attention.

If you aren't able to hang out with her because you're soby.

Make sure the time you do get to spend with her is something that really counts.

Ask questions, listen, and don't constantly check your phone. In other words : Go all in and show her an amazing time when you're with her.

The reason this works is has to do with the contrast in your attention. By going from limited attention to full attention.

You are get to surprise her with a side of you she doesn't get to see enough of.

7. Dare to Disagree.

Just one piece of advice before you run off with this one : Don't disagree with every little thing a woman says just to disagree because chances are, that's not going to go anywhere.

But the truth is this, if you really want woman to chase you, you're going to have to do what a lot of guys won't : and that show them you have some original thoughts of your own.

Any girl can find a pushover, “yes man” type who will agree with anything she says.

Those types of guys, though perfectly “nice”, are a dime a dozen.

On the other hand, the guy who doesn't just automatically nod and smile at everything, is not only infinitely more interesting, but also way more rare than the guy who is too nervous to state his real opinion.

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