The term "marriage" has a lovely and calming tone to it. It is the union of a man and a woman in the hopes of overcoming difficulties as husband and wife and living happily ever after.
Gone are the days when a young lady would be asked to marry a man regardless of his suitability in every aspect. The virgin's family is mostly concerned with whether or not she is ready to marry. In this case, she could be lucky or unlucky in terms of the marriage's outcome. As a result, she must endure and smile despite her suffering.
However, things are rapidly changing right now. Things aren't the same as they were before. As a result, you may see a young lady who is ready to marry taking her time to avoid making a bad life partner these days.
As a result, as a woman, here are the four qualities that your man must possess before you agree to marry him:
1. Make sure he truly loves you.
A man who truly loves you would hesitate to injure you or even cheat on you. He will put you first because he cares about you and your relationship. When you marry a man who doesn't love you, he'll openly flirt with and cheat on you with nearly every gorgeous woman who comes his way. He won't blink an eye before causing you to harm and exposing you to emotional and mental pain. When he loves you, on the other hand, you'll be a priceless diamond that he won't let go of.
2. He must be mature on an emotional, mental, and spiritual level.
A person's maturity is not defined by their age, as the adage goes. As a result, just because a man says he's 30 or 40 doesn't mean he's mature or capable of dealing with life's obstacles. As a result, before consenting to marry him, you must be on the lookout for evidence that he is emotionally, mentally, and spiritually mature. You're to fault if it's the other way around.
3. He must be self-employed or have a legal source of income.
The days of a young lady being compelled to toil and suffer from the man she desired to marry are long gone. You must be certain that he is capable of caring for both you and your expectant children these days. While you're at it, make sure you're capable of looking after yourself whether or not he's present.
4. He should be a man who knows how to read your mind like the back of his hand.
Any connection needs to be based on mutual understanding. If there is no agreement, time will be turbulent to time. As a result, you must ensure that he understands you in terms of his likes and dislikes just as well as you understand him. You and your partner will be able to cope with challenges as they come once you've mastered these.
Content created and supplied by: Liliynews (via Opera News )
Opera News is a free to use platform and the views and opinions expressed herein are solely those of the author and do not represent, reflect or express the views of Opera News. Any/all written content and images displayed are provided by the blogger/author, appear herein as submitted by the blogger/author and are unedited by Opera News. Opera News does not consent to nor does it condone the posting of any content that violates the rights (including the copyrights) of any third party, nor content that may malign, inter alia, any religion, ethnic group, organization, gender, company, or individual. Opera News furthermore does not condone the use of our platform for the purposes encouraging/endorsing hate speech, violation of human rights and/or utterances of a defamatory nature. If the content contained herein violates any of your rights, including those of copyright, and/or violates any the above mentioned factors, you are requested to immediately notify us using via the following email address operanews-external(at)opera.com and/or report the article using the available reporting functionality built into our Platform See More