Well, marriage is not an a walking the park and as many relationship experts say, it is work in progress. Lately, there are many cases of best friends breaking homes. Is it lust or temptation most people are yielding to?
While it is okay to have such good a wonderful friend whom you could fall back to, it is good to be vigilant as such friends may seduce your husband into an affair or your husband could develop feelings for them.
In most cases, it is close to impossible to suspect that your husband could be sleeping with your best friend, but you should never assume everything. Men will just be men and they are naturally hunters. If your friend is not loyal, she may fall into the trap of sleeping with your husband.
If you see these signs, do not ignore them. Pay attention to details.
He is paying more attention to your friend
If suddenly your husband starts giving your friend more attention, this is a red flag. For example, if you invite her for dinner and your husband is overly concerned about her, asking her if she needs this and that, offering to serve her, then you should start launching further investigations.
If she knows something about your husband you don't know
Sometimes if your husband is having an affair with your best friend, he might confide somethings in her. for example, if she accidentally tells you the whereabouts of your husband you are not aware of, it means the two are having deep conversations. Maybe you should find out.
She suddenly changes
The day your best friend gets to bed with your partner, she automatically changes. She might stop contacting you often or start avoiding you. If your bff changes suddenly, and you haven't disagreed on anything, find out if she is communicating with your husband.
Your husband jokes with her in your presence
It is okay to play but too much play with someone's spouse is inappropriate. Depending on how your husband relates with your friend, it is possible to tell when the line is crossed. If this happens it is possible the two are having a close relationship.
She constantly talks about him
One of the surest ways to find out if your friend and your man are having an affair is to pay attention to the things that she says. If your husband appears to her conversations many times, she is possibly thinking about him in a romantic way or having a crush on him.
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