If you want to win the appropriate man's heart, you must understand what drives a man to desire and need you on a deeper level, rather than just dating you casually. I'm going to take you inside a man's head so you can see what it takes to make a connection like this. And I'm referring to a real man — one who is physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually mature and grounded.
They're on the right track and willing to expand their horizons on a personal level. That's why you've come to this website: to discover how to meet a good guy who is looking for a serious relationship. So, what does a mature, REAL man look for in a female partner?
1. He desires a playful woman.
Men enjoy playing and being active. They were taught that action was the best way to express themselves and connect with others. Unfortunately, it appears that too many women have forgotten this and are trying to talk their way into a man's heart. Because of what you say, though, men do not "feel it" for you.
It's not your words that draw a man in; it's the experiences you share with him that do. Watch or play sports with your friends, compete in informal activities like ping pong, and even throw in a little taunting and sarcasm now and again. You'll pique people's attention and increase their attraction.
2. He is looking for a self-sufficient woman.
Many women have the misconception that men are looking for a "weaker" woman to make them feel smarter and more powerful. The opposite is true. Real guys seek a woman that inspires them because she is living her best life. They seek a woman who has a goal in life other than dating.
The independence and achievement of a wonderful individual do not intimidate him. What counts to a man is that a woman still has room in her life for a wonderful relationship and that she is grounded and present when she is with him. The greatest approach to convey this to a man is to keep yourself active in your own life rather than making him your entire world. Don't neglect your owners or friends to be with him.
3. He seeks an emotionally mature partner.
A woman who has the maturity to convey her thoughts in an honest and real way that helps a man better understand her, rather than blaming or criticizing a man for how she feels, will be attractive to a guy. One of the most crucial factors that men consider when determining whether or not to pursue a relationship with a woman is how she manages her emotions.
To him, it's a big red flag if she allows her emotions to go out of control. On the other side, if she can express her sentiments to him in a calm, non-dramatic manner, she will earn his respect and make him feel like she is the type of woman who will be a true partner. We'll see if she can keep her cool under pressure rather than becoming a damsel in distress who needs rescuing.
4. He wants to be with a woman to whom he has strong feelings.
Men are more apprehensive about commitment and relationships than they are about being in a relationship with a woman who lacks passion and desire. By either trying too hard to get him to like you or behaving like the relationship is too serious too soon, women frequently kill the attraction men might be feeling.
Allow things to unfold spontaneously. Make sure you start your relationship off on the right foot by doing and saying things that inject fun and humor. A great woman who knows how to relax and have fun is irresistible to a man. Playful teasing, flirtation, comedy, and being surprising are all effective ways to do this (in a good way).
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