All of us are scared of raising kids alone. Parenthood completely changes your life because because you will find out something else that is fully dependent on you and that without your attention and input, nothing will move.
To be prepared, you need to do the following:
Learn to say "NO"
You need a strong home. That means you first have to be strong regardless of your parental status, no one should have a right to push you into anything that makes you uncomfortable.
Some people tend always insisting that you raise your kids their way like they know your child better than you think you do.
Never entertain such. Even when you believe in yourself, such people will intimidate you and make y feel bad about it and see yourself incapable.
If you cannot be assertive and say no, then such relationships need to be cut off before you decide to be a parent.
Save as much money as you can
Parenthood is expensive. You need to make enough money as savings so that when the money comes in, you will save yourself from the torture of financial crisis.
You only need to find a good time to save before you only have a good time to save before you get kids because once the child is born, parents barely save money.
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