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Don't Allow Your Life To Be Controlled By These 5 Things

Many people spend their life at the mercy of circumstances. Living at the mercy of what happens to them .Living at the mercy of other people. Not living in the present 'because 'they are stuck in the prison of their past .If you want to live a great life don't allow yourself to be controlled by any of these things.

1.Your Past.Do not allow your past to control your present 'or your future life. Whatever happened you must let it go.Leave the pain of your past behind ,so it cannot ruin your future. Leave the darkness of your past behind so it can not block the light of your bright future. Whatever happened ,whether unjust ,cruel ,harsh ,;whatever the case ,reliving the events will never do you any good. If someone did you wrong ,the only way you can win is if you let go and move on .if you live in hate they win ,if you live in the victim story,they win ,.If you want to win you must focus on building your future and start right now .Don't allow events of the past, which are now gone to ruin this moment which is perfect.....this moment which is now to enjoy ,which is ready for you to live fully.

2.Other people's opinions and judgments. Do not allow other people's opinions and judgements to control the direction of your life. The need to fit in and feel wanted can cause you to travel down paths you don't want to travel. Before you do anything, ask yourself. Am I doing this because I want to do it ,or because of my fear of judgement from others if I don't? You were born to stand out , to be appreciated and loved for WHO YOU ARE .Don't dim your light so you fit into the dull background of other people's lives. Shine bright AS YOU ARE those who really care for you will see that light and shine with you. Don't be so nice and accommodating, be as bitter as pepper ,those who will find sweetness in you will accompany you and accommodate you the way you are.

3.Limited Beliefs You Project on Yourself. Now a warning with this one .These beliefs may be conscious,but more than likely they are unconscious. They may be unconscious limitations that have been conditioned in you from a young age and throughout your entire life.By listening to those around you who never reached for their own dream doesn't help you. Tell them to shut up. There is nothing you can not do Nothing you cannot have and one you cannot become if you belief in yourself. Anything is possible when you change your belief from limited to unlimited. Your potential is unlimited. If you lived your life as though Anything is possible. As though miracles are a standard requirement of everyday. As the saying goes ''When there is no enemy within,the enemy outside can do you no harm " when you have nothing inside holding you back,there is nothing outside that can hold you back either..Your entire life will change the very instant you decide to change your mindset The instant you decide to see everything as a gift ,when you decide to see every circumstance and challenge as a blessing rather than a curse. The very instant you become conscious to the fact that everything is as it should be .and know that fighting what is insane.

4.Relationships.


This is a touchy subject. But if you are always needing another to be happy to feel complete,then you are always one moment away from a breakdown. If that person leaves you or unhappiness,if the relationship you are in is not going well.

Iam not suggesting to avoid relationships. There is no force on this earth greater than Love and connection. I am talking about those who can't live if they aren't in a relationship. Those who will be with just about anyone including all the wrong ones ,just to avoid spending a moment being single. What am saying is to develop enough mental strength that you get to the point where you don't need other to make you happy. You are just as happy being alone as you are in a relationship.

5.Money.

This is what controls the majority of humans on the planet. This does not mean you shouldn't want abundance. It doesn't mean money is evil. You know as well as I do what great things you can do and how many people you can help with money.

What this means is , do not allow your decisions to be controlled by money. Only one factor of how much money is involved,you've just made the wrong decision what you will find,is what when you follow your heart,and you lead with your intention to serve others to give your best to others Every Single Time.

When you follow your intuition and truly give your soul then the money will come and it will come in far greater amounts,than if you simply chase money.

In conclusion Find your freedom free from being controlled by anything and live fully.

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