Irresistible people possess an authentic interest in those around them. As a result, they don't spend much time thinking about themselves. They don't obsess over how well they are liked because they are too busy focusing on the people they are with. It is what makes their irresistibility seem so effortless.
A guy walks into a room, he has nothing special to look at him, but everyone flocks at him. Why is this? He is not ashamed to be ordinary. Genuine people attract the attention of those who can spot a fake person. Be who you are and live this as your truth. If you don't like something, change it.
Treat everyone with respect.
Whether interacting with your biggest client or a server taking your drinks order, you have to be unfailingly polite and respectful. Irresistible people treat everyone with respect because they believe they are not better than anyone else.
The difference between confidence and cockiness is in the presentation. Confident people know that they are the best, cocky people say that they are the best. Hold your head high but never look down on anyone. If challenged, playfully agree and walk away because you know who you are.
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