In today's article, we'll look at five persons you should avoid at all costs.
1. Those who take.
These are folks who solely want to take your possessions. They have nothing or very little to give, but a lot to take.
They only beg for favors and receive nothing in return. It's not that you shouldn't deal with individuals who want anything from you; in fact, you do. However, if all they want is your time, money, or attention, you should shun them totally.
People that claim to be someone they are not, as you can see, there are a lot of people who do this. So you have to figure out whether this individual is real or fake, whether they're telling you the truth or just lying to you; there are a lot of fishy fakes and frauds out there. You must know who they are, be able to identify them in your mind, and decide how much you want to deal with them.
3. Untrustworthy individuals
When you come across an untrustworthy person, it certainly rips your heart because you trusted him at first, but he betrayed that trust. They may have lied, cheated, or stolen, and you may have forgiven them, but if they continue to do so, you must remove them from your life and recognize who you are dealing with. When it comes to creating valuable relationships, if in doubt, chuck them away. It is critical to have faith in one another. If you don't trust the individuals you're with, you'll become pessimistic, cynical, and suspicious of everyone else in your circle. Many people will tell you that you can't trust everyone, but I'm here to tell you that you can trust select individuals, and if you can't, just kick them out. And, if you're able, invite them in.
I remember the first time I heard the word flake. I had no idea what that meant, but I enjoyed it. A flake is someone who promises to show up but doesn't. I used to have a gym buddy who would tell me all the time that we'd hang together, and he'd say it year after year. After the third or fourth year, I finally told him, "That's it, I'm done with this guy," and he was kicked out of my life. I never saw him again after realizing he was a flake. If you have flaky people in your life, try to figure out who they are and throw them out because if you wait too long, they'll keep flaking, and you'll waste your time, energy, and emotions trying to track them down and be their pals. They may not want to be your friends or conduct business with you. They may appear to do so, but they do not. To discover people who will, you must first eliminate those who will not.
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